Friday, June 21, 2013

Tips for Parents with Infants - Rule #2



A family close to ours had their child six weeks prior to our son being born and over time I developed Rule #2 - Make friends with a family who child is two months older than yours. I always joked that this family was the reason my wife an I were always so composed. (sigh...)

You watch the other parents make "mistakes", then you look like supper parents because nothing phases you. I  believe that the two month gap is crucial to enhancing your parenting skills. The other family has a couple weeks to figure out each situation, a few weeks to adapt and then report back on what they've learned. The rule is hokey but it works and you look like a champ. Plus your kid doesn't "suffer" through your learning curve so they're happier.

This isn't a one sided either, as the other parents are sharing their learning with you they cement their skills and are better prepared. See how great you are for letting other parents share their mistakes...way to go you!

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